It’s confirmed! Selena Gomez is now engaged to music producer Benny Blanco. On December 11, 2024, Gomez posted the thrilling announcement on Instagram, stating, “Forever starts now,” with several pictures highlighting her beautiful engagement ring. The initial photo in the carousel featured a detailed shot of her marquise-cut diamond ring on a pavé band, perfectly paired with her stylish, translucent pink nails for a celebration-ready appearance. The engagement announcement displayed Gomez sprawled on a picnic blanket with a champagne bottle and some Taco Bell in the background—offering fans a look into the relaxed, personal moment.
In the comments, Blanco replied with a light-hearted note: “Hey, hold on…that’s my wife.” The couple’s connection has been tumultuous, and their engagement signifies the next phase in their journey as a pair.
A Love Story Steeped in Music
Gomez and Blanco’s romantic connection goes hand in hand with their musical history. The two have worked together professionally for years, creating some of Gomez’s most memorable hits. Blanco produced Gomez’s tracks “Same Old Love” and “Kill Em with Kindness” in 2015, followed by “Trust Nobody” in 2016. Their most recent collaboration was on the 2019 song “I Can’t Get Enough,” a catchy hit featuring J Balvin and Tainy. Blanco also produced Gomez’s 2023 single, “Single Soon.” The pair has undeniable chemistry, both on and off the stage.
The announcement of their engagement comes at a time when rumours about their relationship were making headlines. Fans first speculated about their engagement in August 2024 when Gomez shared a bathroom selfie featuring Blanco, cleverly hiding her ring finger with a heart emoji. The gossip mill was set ablaze when a popular account posted about a famous couple getting engaged after a year of dating. Gomez later dismissed the rumours by sharing another selfie, this time with her ringless hand visible.
Looking Toward the Future
Before their official engagement, both Gomez and Blanco had spoken publicly about their hopes for the future, including the idea of marriage and starting a family. In an interview earlier this year, Gomez revealed that she had always planned on adopting children, even before meeting Blanco. At 32, Gomez is still determined to start a family, though she has acknowledged that motherhood might look different for her. She has been open about her struggles with fertility, revealing that she cannot carry children. However, she remains hopeful and grateful for options like surrogacy and adoption, which she sees as beautiful opportunities for women who want to become mothers.
“I’m excited for what that journey will look like, but it’ll look a little different,” Gomez shared. “At the end of the day, I don’t care. It’ll be mine. It’ll be my baby.”
No Pressure, Just Love
Gomez and Blanco have been publicly dating since December 2023, but their bond goes far beyond the spotlight. In interviews, Gomez has expressed how easy and natural their connection is, noting that they don’t feel pressure to get married. “We always make sure we’re protecting what we have, but there are no rules,” she explained in an interview with Vanity Fair. “I want him to always be himself. I always want to be myself.”
Their relationship is marked by love and mutual respect, with Gomez describing Blanco as a light in her life. “He’s just been a light. A complete light in my life. He’s my best friend. I love telling him everything.”


A Tradition She’ll Skip
Despite their engagement, one tradition that Gomez is firm about skipping is changing her name. “I’m not changing my name no matter what,” she stated definitively. “I am Selena Gomez. That’s it.”
As they move forward in their relationship, the couple is focused on building their future together, free from external pressures. With their deep-rooted love, shared history, and exciting plans ahead, Gomez and Blanco’s journey is just beginning.